2011年1月9日星期日

Staying Frisky After Fifty ----"You're going through the change."

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Women in their fifties, and sometimes their forties, do go through the change. The average age is said to be 51, though the process of menopause can last for a number of years. Menopause occurs when the monthly, female reproductive cycles stop, and the process causes a physical, emotional, and psychological transformation in most women.
When the levels of reproductive hormones decrease over time, all of the body's hormones fluctuate and cause physical symptoms such as hot flashes and palpitations, psychological symptoms such as depression, anxiety, irritability, mood swings, and lack of concentration. Menstrual cycles become erratic before they end completely, and other symptoms may occur, such as frequent and less-controlled urination and vaginal dryness. And along with all of this often comes a decreased or seemingly non-existent sex drive.
A recent study found that nearly a third of women in relationships between the ages of 50 and 70 had little to no"" woman's sex drive pills"". Reasons not only include the physical changes that a woman's body goes through during and as a result of menopause, but general health problems and life transitions - children moving away, grandchildren demanding attention, friends becoming sick or dying, retirement, divorce or staleness in marriages - often come into play.
Doctors have been a long time finding the solution. Hormone replacement therapy is often prescribed, and though it helps with hot flashes and mood swings, the libido is left unaided. While research has discovered erectile dysfunction drugs such as Viagra, Cialis, and Levitra for men, those solutions don't work for most women.
The first step for women experiencing a lack of sexual feelings or urges is to speak with a physician, one with whom the woman is comfortable. Complete honesty about the symptoms and details of the missing sex drive are necessary for a doctor to advise appropriately. It may be helpful to find a local clinic or small medical practice that specializes in female health where doctors will know the right questions to ask in order to properly diagnose the problem.
Sometimes, the solution can be found in a simple diagnosis of a treatable problem, such as thyroid disorders and diabetes, high blood pressure and depression. Prescribed medications can treat the problem and launch women back into a comfortable sex life once again. In some cases, a testosterone cream can work, though there are possible side effects like facial hair growth. And in very few cases, ""male sex pills"" like "male sex endurance pills"" do remedy the problem.
What a female health specialist will do that other doctors may not, is examine the psychological and emotional changes in a patient's life that may have caused the sex drive  to decrease or disappear. Most often, the prescription will be a relatively simple one, though a doctor should help with detailed solutions and feeling comfortable with them, of changing the person's attitude and expectations about sex. For example, instead of expecting arousal prior to a sexual encounter, simply wait for the partner to become excited and allow the excitement to accompany that of the other person.
In addition, women may need to step out of their sexual comfort zone and be willing to try new things in new places, and try a new attitude. If a woman is not usually the aggressor in the relationship, the challenge of changing roles might be interesting. If sex usually takes place in the bedroom, try a different room in the house, or even make a date at a local hotel.
Sometimes, the solution can be as simple as an exercise routine to help a woman feel better about her body. And if vaginal dryness or general discomfort occurs, increasing the frequency of sex can improve the situation, as can using ""best male sex pills ""like ""Herbal Sex pill""to keep the blood flowing. In addition, if a regular partner is involved, having a frank discussion with that person can often be eye-opening and lead to the partner taking the lead and making an effort to make the woman more comfortable and interested in sex.
Where there's a will to regain a lost or waning interest in sex, there is a way, no matter a woman's age or life changing experiences.

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